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Terry Dunkle

Yes, I took the 175th anniversary group photo that appears on this website's homepage. Less than a minute after Melody Montgomery (the lady in the black dress on the right side of the group photo) snapped this picture, I jumped down from my pedestal and the crowd was treated to the sight of an overweight 56-year-old nearly falling on his face.

 

About Me and King Street Church

 
My wife, Mary, and I joined the church in 1994, a year after moving to a bigger house on nearby Kilian Drive.  We had lived elsewhere in Danbury since 1984. We were drawn to the church by its picturesque appearance. On our first visit, we were delighted to find that its members were not only genuinely friendly, but tolerant of one another's differences in a good old-fashioned New England way. Today the church is a central part of our lives, a place of respite and fellowship -- like an extra room in our house where many of our friends live.

Both Mary and I sing in the church choir. She's a soprano; I'm a bass-baritone but lately have been singing tenor. I have an unusually wide range, which more than makes up for the mediocrity of my voice. Music is important to me, for reasons you will appreciate if you read this little essay I published in the church bulletin one Memorial Day.

In our 13 years at King Street, Mary and I have served in just about every team, including Deacons, Council, Music, Religious Education, and Stewardship. We've also ushered, served as liturgists, chaired or helped with the annual church fair, and (in my case) performed at the annual talent show and benefit auction.

One of my favorite activities is helping to publicize the church and its events, by taking photographs, writing and submitting news releases, creating content for the website, and broadcasting e-mails containing pictures and music. (Example.) All of these capitalize on my background as a journalist (see below).

Some of my favorite moments at King Street:

  • My son Bill's confirmation in 1997, when he observed the custom of giving back to his mother the yellow rose that is bestowed at a baby's baptism.
     
  • Winning the Elvis impersonation contest at a church benefit in the King Street Firehouse, by crooning "That's When Your Heartaches Begin." (I still have the trophy.)

  • Writing and acting in Casablanket, a parody of the famous movie starring co-pastors Roger and Sandy Daly, presented at the 2002 talent auction. (Here's the script.)
     

  • Kenny Lee's funeral, where I learned just how valiantly he had defied his polio, even playing baseball and football on crutches.
     
  • January 1, 2006, when I preached my first sermon.
     
  • Walking or running past the church more than 3000 times (it's on my daily 3.5-mile circuit). Seeing it shining in the night; basking in the sunshine; enduring snow, sleet, or rain. Thinking how many souls it has saved, refreshed, inspired, and comforted in the century and a half since it was built, and how many more will pass its way after I am laid to rest -- perhaps in its quaint little graveyard near Kenny Lee.

More About Me

 

The creek where I was born is famous for fly-fishing, but all I ever wanted to do was photograph it. I am still haunted by its beauty, and make pictures every time I visit. I have taken hundreds from this very spot.

I grew up in the wilds of northern Pennsylvania, in a place called the Endless Mountains. From my childhood I loved both literature and science, and so naturally I became a science journalist. Later, I worked at Reader's Digest for a dozen years, where I served as editor to many famous writers, business leaders, politicians, and other public figures. I jumped to the Web in 1996, where I helped build a daily personalized news service called HealthDay.

Since 1999, I have run my own company, DietPower, Inc., which develops and sells weight-loss and nutrition software, news, and feature articles on the Web. I am also an editorial consultant to magazines and websites. Because my company is in my house, I have one of the easiest commutes in Danbury -- and plenty of flexibility to help with the work of my church.

Mary and I will celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary next July. We met as news reporters, and worked together on two papers before we married. She is now Vice President, Communications, for the National Organization for Rare Disorders, based in Danbury, and runs its website. Formerly, she worked in PR at Danbury Hospital and was a wheel in PR at Penn State. Click to see her member page.

Our son John, 26, lives in Danbury and works in the quality assurance department of Curtis Packaging, a company in Sandy Hook that prints a lot of the packaging you see in your supermarket, at the mall, or online.

Bill, 23, works for a large advertising agency in midtown Manhattan. He graduated from Penn State in 2005 with a degree in marketing and international business and a minor in Spanish.

Tom, 14, is a freshman at Danbury High School and is interested in computers, math, and learning to be the world's best drummer. In his spare time, he also ships all the CDs that DietPower sends to its customers.

Wally the Schnauzer, 13, seems to be interested only in his food dish.

 

MEMBERS: Joy Schultz serves free meals at the Dorothy Day Hospitality House. (Click to see other members.)

FUN: Why was church member Bob Mangels brandishing a gun? Click here for scenes from our 2005 talent show and benefit auction.

QUIZ: Amanda won a gigantic Miracle Cookie for being the only contestant to locate the mystery object in our September 2006 quiz. Meanwhile, Sue Roberts won a gift certificate to Taormina Restaurant just for entering. Click here to see the results of our Autumn 2006 quiz, which featured a piece of King Street Church history.

 

 


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This page last modified December 16, 2006, at 12:13 by TD