Kindness is a language
which the deaf can hear and the blind can read.

-- Mark Twain

Come as you are!
Suits, jeans, and
feather boas welcome.

 
 

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Mary Dunkle

 

About Me and King Street Church

 
I still remember the first time I saw King Street Church. We had lived in Danbury for several years, and I thought I knew the city well -- but I was stunned, one day, to round a corner and discover this lovely country church so perfectly suited to its setting.

A few years later, after our third son was born, my husband, Terry, and I made the decision to start going to church -- something we hadn’t done for many years. On our first visit to King Street Church, I had expected to sneak in quietly and simply observe, unnoticed. It quickly became clear that you can’t do that at King Street Church. The building is too small, the congregation too friendly.

Although we made a few perfunctory visits to other churches afterwards, I knew King Street was our home. Over the 12 years since then, I have served on the religious education team, as Sunday School superintendent, as a Vacation Bible School helper, as a trustee, and now as a deacon. Some of my most enjoyable “assignments” have been the little ones that come up sporadically -- serving coffee after services on a Sunday morning, helping hang the wreaths at Christmas time, and hiding Easter eggs for the children.
 

More About Me

 

Our sons Tom,  Bill, and John with me at Bill's Penn State graduation in 2005. Terry and I spent a dozen years studying and working at Penn State, where generations of Dunkles are alumni. Behind us is Mount Nittany, famous for its association with Penn State football.

I grew up in rural Indiana, in a town where the prosperous families attended the Presbyterian Church and the working-class families, like mine, the Methodist. Our church was an extension of my family: I knew just where to look for my grandparents each week, in their usual pew. My father was the Sunday School superintendent, my mother a Sunday School teacher. He worked in a Chrysler plant; she stayed home.

I love gardening.  I wish I had time for it!

The Vietnam War and accompanying social upheaval dominated my college years, leaving many of my generation with a feeling that the church (and much of what our parents had taught us) was irrelevant.

The week I graduated from college, I met Terry, and we were married a year later. As newspaper reporters, we worked long and unpredictable hours. This, too, kept us away from church.

Later, I became a writer/editor, and eventually assistant director of public relations at Penn State University. It was,

in many respects, a golden period in our lives. We lived in a classic little college town, State College, Pa., where we walked or bicycled to work. We made friends with experts in every conceivable field. Our first child, John, was born during this time.

After 12 years, Terry’s work as a magazine editor took us to Boston, where our second son, Bill, was born.

When Terry joined Reader’s Digest, we settled in Danbury and I became director of public relations for Danbury Hospital. Our third son, Tom, is a Danbury native.

I'm now vice president, communications at the National Organization for Rare Disorders (NORD). I love my job because it gives me opportunities to meet people whose courage and strength in the face of  devastating  diseases is awe-inspiring.

 

My work takes me to far-off lands...

I also love the fact that my colleagues and I have direct, one-on-one contact with the people we are trying to help -- something that was lacking in my earlier work.

...so it's always a joy to come home.

Two of our sons are grown now, and we are very proud of them. We’re also thankful that Tom, too, is having opportunities to experience the kind of church family that Terry and I both remember.

My work involves travel, and I am constantly amazed at how friendly and homelike the church feels to me each time I enter it again after returning from some distant point.

 

Accustomed to sleeping
through sermons?
You won’t here.
Better get your rest before you come!

MEMBERS: Joy Schultz serves free meals at the Dorothy Day Hospitality House. (Click to see other members.)

QUIZ: Amanda won a gigantic Miracle Cookie for being the only contestant to locate the mystery object in our September 2006 quiz. Meanwhile, Sue Roberts won a gift certificate to Taormina Restaurant just for entering. Click here to see the results of our Autumn 2006 quiz, which featured a piece of King Street Church history.

 

 


Copyright © 2006 by Mary Dunkle

This page last modified December 16, 2006, at 12:16 by TD